White women for dating
The world made it complicated and assumed I had an ulterior motive, and it sucks, but I understand why.
There are self-hating black men who date white women for contrived and pathetic reasons and I hate them.
They're so upfront about their exclusive attraction to white women and they'll give you a list of reasons why. They smugly go out of their way to put down black women based on stereotypical notions about their attitude, or hair, or something equally stupid and it's corny and disgusting.
That's one of the issues with interracial dating.
I can't say that my own mother has never asked, "When are you going to bring home a girl who looks like me?
These are generalizations, of course, but they are attitudes that I've personally encountered.
If I didn’t support it, there would be a lot of problems in my family.
Both of my white brothers-in-law are married to Asian women, and my white younger brother is dating an Asian woman.
Look, when you are in a relationship with someone, you are in a relationship with that person, not their entire heritage and everyone who identifies as their race. Interracial relationships being more common and more visible is a big and important step to racial equality.
There might be some cultural differences to learn, depending on how traditional either family is, but how cool is it to get to learn about another culture so intimately? It’s hard to want to deny someone their rights, and hard not to speak up against stereotypes, when they’re dating your brother or the mother of your niece and nephew.